You have built the career.
The income. The life.
So why does love keep going wrong?
Private Mentorship
Four sessions a month. One man. No audience.
You do not need another dating lesson. You need the decision underneath the dating to change. I will tell you the truth, and I will stay on your side while I do it.
This is private work for successful men over 40. Sixty to ninety minutes, with me. Three months is the minimum, because that is where real results start. Most men who want it to hold stay six months, a year, or longer. We decide the length together. You do not sample this for thirty days.
What stays in the room
What you tell me stays with me. Your name, your company, your children, the woman, the money, the thing you have not said out loud. I do not use your life as a lesson, a post, or a story unless you ask me to, in writing.
Most of the men who hire me are used to being competent in public. The place they feel behind is the place they least want witnessed. You will not be used. Dave is named on my site because he said I could. You will not be.
What we actually work on
Not scripts. Not a personality you perform on dates. The place that keeps choosing.
The sentence under the relationship. Love has to be earned. Leaving makes you a failure. If you pay, you are loved. If you need something, you are weak. A woman is supposed to complete you. Staying single is the only way to keep your peace.
The behavior in the actual week. Chasing. Over-giving. Explaining yourself for twenty minutes. Going quiet. Losing your temper. Writing the whole thing off as not worth it.
The older decision, when it is still running. What you carried out of the house you grew up in. The grief, the anger, and the boy who learned that needing someone was dangerous. You do not need words for it before we start. You need to be willing to feel it without making yourself wrong for it.
The rest of the life that pattern is taxing. The business. The children. The Tuesday you spend alone and call fine. Men come for love. They stay because it was never only the love life.
What the time is for
The first month, you see it while it is happening. The moment you start to chase, shut down, over-give, or make her responsible for your worth. You may not change every one of those moments. Fear is often still in the room. You will stop being surprised by them.
Some men, in that first month, tell the truth at home without losing the room. Some set a boundary they have postponed for years. Some stop auditioning to be useful. I will not promise you all three in thirty days. I will not leave you alone with what you see.
The second and third months are where the new choice costs you something. A date you leave. A conversation you do not manage. A week you do not fill with the wrong woman just to not feel the quiet. This is where it starts to feel like your life, not a session you attended.
Three months is the bare minimum. It is not the finish. Six months is where it holds when the week gets loud. A year is where you recognize the pattern without me. I am not trying to keep you. I teach you how to carry it, and then you go.
You live this between sessions. Showing up is not the work. I will show you what to do with the week. I cannot do the week instead of you.
Between sessions you can reach me by text or email. Not by phone. Use it for the work, not as a second session.
What I will not do
I will not build you a personality for dates, and I will not hand you lines. If a profile or a text is in the way, we can look at it. That is a small part of our time together. It is not the work.
I will not agree that she is the whole problem, and I will not take a side in a war between men and women.
I will not shame the anger you stuff down, the sadness you push away, or the loneliness you do not say at work. All of that is welcome here. Needing kindness does not make you less of a man.
I will not promise you a partner by a date. I will not pretend a relationship is the only successful ending. A good life on your own is a result. A good life with someone is a result. Staying, or starting, just so you are not alone, is the old pattern.
I do not sugarcoat, and I am never cruel. If I point at a blind spot, it is because I can see the man on the other side of it. You will feel safe here. Not managed. Not judged. Respected.
You can show up as you are. Angry, quiet, funny, done with the week. If you need to get it off your chest, we start there. We do not live there. This is not a room that only listens. You are paying for a change, and I will hold you to the work. If you need longer before you can go deeper, I will not rush you, and I will not make you wrong for it. The hour has a shape. It is still yours.
The Kings & Queens Mentorship
Let’s do that together inside my Kings & Queens mentorship
Inside, you will get direct access to me — once every single week — where I will personally coach you through your journey toward the relationships and the life you actually want.
My methods teach you everything you need to know to create healthy relationships:
How to attract invincible love and stop choosing from the wrong place inside yourself
How to mend strained relationships with family and loved ones
How to form lifetime friendships and deeper connections
How to create harmonious relationships with colleagues
How to trust yourself and your own judgment again
How to recognize a genuinely good partner — and let them in
How to set boundaries with ease and without guilt
How to release anger, resentment, and the need to prove your worth to anyone
You’ll learn all of this inside the coaching program, which includes:
Once weekly 60-90 minute private coaching session
with me, where I’ll personally coach you 1:1 through your particular journey toward finding your forever-love
Tailored Relationship Desire Map
We craft a personalized map to guide you on your journey to finding your partner. A comprehensive system for permanent subconscious change, based on 50 years of intensive research into the science and mechanics of personal achievements
Integrated Home Practices
Receive customized at-home practices to seamlessly integrate the insights gained during our live sessions.
Continuous Support Between Sessions
Access email/Text/Whatsapp support during regular office hours (Mon-Fri, 9-5) to address every question and overcome challenges in real-time.
Guided Journey Every Step of the Way
Walk your path with confidence, knowing you have dedicated support at every step of your relationship journey.
If you are done with the cycle and ready to build a love that is genuinely great — real, deep, and built to last — this program helps you find your king or queen. Especially the one within you.
My Story
I spent my entire childhood learning how to have the wrong relationships. A dad who left when I was young. Six stepfathers through a revolving door. And patterns I carried into two marriages — and two divorces — before I finally stopped and asked the only question that actually mattered: What is my role in this?
I spent over seven years and six figures doing the deep root-level work to answer that question. Not therapy. Not self-help books. The real work — excavating the unconscious beliefs driving every choice I had ever made in love. That work changed everything. Not just my relationships. My entire life.
And it is the same work I do with every client inside this program.
Melanie Verstraete as seen in:
If you want to find “the one,” you have to be “the one.”
If you want to sync up with your perfect match, you have to embody the attributes you need to attract that type of partner.
But you are still waiting for the right person to show up and change everything.
Or settling for a relationship that’s good enough.
Passively waiting and settling are the surest ways to block the love your heart actually desires.
While you’re busy hooking up with people who aren’t quite right for you, you might block your perfect partner from making a connection.
It’s so easy to be complacent. It’s so much easier than doing the internal work.
But if you’ve learned anything from reading this so far—it’s that the internal work is the ultimate key to invincible love.
Become the Partner You Want to Attract
You can have different results too.
What You’ll Learn
Kings & Queens will teach you how to:
Identify and preprogram the negative self-talk that repels true love
Reverse unhealthy relationship patterns permanently
Identify what your heart desires and make it a reality
Form deeper bonds with loved ones and friends
Book a call here to find out how I can help you build a group of solid, sustainable relationships around you that make your life sizzle.
It’s time to finally live out your Pleasure Paradigm as the kings and queens we are.
Why You're Stuck
Your love is out there.
But your assumptions about love and relationships hold you back:
“Yeah right, this is never going to work.”
“Come on, be real! There’s no one out there like that.”
“I’m not cool/thin/young/pretty/smart enough to find someone like that.”
Sound familiar?
These are the exact Pain Paradigms that botch your progress.
Not only do Pain Paradigms mess with your relationships—they talk you out of the very program that would set you free.
If you want different results, you’re going to have to do something different.
THE TRANSFORMATION AWAITS
I know firsthand how completely and permanently these processes work.
I am in a state of complete satisfaction with my work, my home, myself and my family relationships right now because of the Pleasure Paradigm I'm living from — while still having huge goals and big plans.
You don't attract what you want — you attract what you ARE. Vibrationally, moment to moment. In other words, your thoughts, your perceptions, and your attitudes of mind.
When you want to achieve something as meaningful as a partner who treats you like the king or queen you are, it requires you to break your imagined limits and retrain the mind at the root.
You will only experience what you truly believe you deserve.
My clients will tell you that I am direct, that I do not let them off the hook, and that I genuinely care about their results more than their comfort.
They will also tell you that we laugh — a lot.
Because healing does not have to be heavy all the time.
What they do not expect is how fast things shift. And how different their whole life looks on the other side.
If you want real, lasting results, I am the person who will actively walk you into a whole new reality.
I have had my own huge wake-up calls in love.
I have done the deep work of reprogramming my own subconscious. I have lived it.
And I can get you there too.
What Makes This Different
What’s Next?
You’ve got a choice to make:
Stay where you are — in the same patterns, the same cycles, the same place.
Or make the decision that changes everything. The work is real. The results are real. And I will be with you every step of the way.
Behind every excuse (“I’m not ready,” “I’m too busy,” “I’ll do it next time”)
is the same faulty paradigm keeping you where you are.
You were meant to have a life full of REAL love all around you.
Why keep putting it off when I can show you how to install that into your life—permanently?
What my clients have actually experienced:
The results inside this program go far beyond who you are dating. When you heal the relationship you hold with yourself, every area of your life begins to reorganize around that new truth.
My clients have landed dream jobs and left ones they hated. Bought homes they once only imagined. Increased their income significantly. Lost weight. Got fit. Repaired broken relationships with family members they had not spoken to in years. Saved marriages. Found genuine peace — the kind that does not depend on anyone else showing up a certain way.
They attract better people — not just romantically. They trust themselves. They see people clearly for who they are rather than who they need them to be. They have no more anger, no more resentment, no more settling. They enjoy their lives.
This is what becomes possible when you do the work at the root.
Ready To Say Yes?
If you’re ready to:
Learn how to reprogram your most powerful asset—your mind—so you can create healthy relationships + a bigger, fuller life
Build a healthy foundation for lasting change in relationships
Walk your journey with support at every step
Attract invincible love by aligning your thoughts, beliefs, and vibration to live out your Pleasure Paradigm with ease
Then join me inside Kings & Queens.
You can book a call or enroll right now
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+90-minute weekly private coaching session with Melanie
+ Tailored Relationship Desire Map
+ Weekly Live Zoom Calls for 12 weeks
+ Continuous Support Between Sessions
+ Guided Journey Every Step of the Way
+ Integrated Home Practices
+ BONUS : Custom Natal Chart Reading
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